Guiding Black women to increased mental emancipation, awareness and abundance by opening up their options in every facet of life. Many have to be "retaught" to look out for our interests instead of putting everyone else (often non-reciprocal parties) to the head of the line. One primary issue is marriage: Black women MUST consider men from all racial/ethnic makeups to have increased odds of finding love. This blog also asks many of the hard questions on the mindsets and actions which have been ingrained in far too many Black women for years. We are results-oriented! Pointless "conversation loops" are not our goal. Happiness, love, intact families & living well are priority. WARNING: Material presented here will often challenge herd mentality. My home is not a Democracy (Visualize Democracy as two wolves & a sheep deciding on what's for dinner) I only cater to areas which further the awareness and interests of BLACK WOMEN. We maintain reciprocal relationships only with those who uplift us. All others are strongly recommended to find another outlet. Thanks in advance for your understanding!


Black Women Deserve Better





Mahalo Extended To Those Who Support "Black Women Deserve Better" & Other Positive BW Endeavors...Reciprocity Is Key To Our Advancement, Education, Protection And Quality Of Life!



EFP#4 07-28-10 Product Recommendations???

07-28-10

******Keep posting & sending in product/service recommendations from other Black women!*******

(Lotion supply getting low and I need not start any fires in Honolulu ;) )

Just Ordered…

Nourishing Hair and Body Butter Wonderful Watermelon

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I am always happy to support Black women who provide GREAT services! Sisterlocks are coming along…So far, So good…However I am opening the board again to feature more products

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Update: Now this also goes both ways…If there are any inquiries for a product/service facilitated  by a Black Woman business, please post them here!

This is a continuation of

“EFP #4- OPERATION: RECIPROCITY*UPLIFT*SUPPORT”

Please take time to read this post if you haven’t already done so -THANX!

*******YES….. This topic  WILL remain a “sticky” near the top indefinitely, inviting intense scrutiny to our contribution & dedication!!! SUCCESS or FAILure is 100% ON US !!! Once again…Thanks for your participation and support! :D *******

But the purpose now is creating more room to facilitate the showcasing of additional Black women based merchandise/services…Below, the reader will also find a checklist to determine their personal progress & where improvements can be made”

Probing Topic/Question:

Let us come together and reason!  Where have you fallen short? What product(s) do you have trouble finding outside of certain entities which have taken over “our” interests.  The purpose is definitely NOT to shame, but rather exchange resources…This way we will NEVER have to step foot in those places again.  There will no longer be an excuse when there are other viable *alternatives.

*(If what you need is not available within a Black woman owned structure, I’d rater you peruse a “colorless” business than the usual aforementioned found in many Black environments!)

Tangibles & Intangibles -Have you done any of the following recently?

  • Purchased or patronized a Black woman’s business

  • Passed on a link that would be informative/uplifting to other BW

  • Helped spread awareness on BW safety, including Missing BW & children

Free Services such as “Add This” “Share This” & “Share-a-holic” are excellent resources for the quick dissemnation of info!

*******REMINDER*******

  • WHEN STUMBLING UPON A GOOD FIND, DON’T KEEP IT TO YOURSELF!  SEND ME ALL RELEVANT INFO…  THECWEXPERIENCE@HOTMAIL.COM

  • BLACK WOMEN WITH PRODUCTS AND/OR SERVICES ARE MORE THAN WELCOMED TO SEND ME THEIR LINKS AS WELL!

  • CHECK THE “ELECTRONIC LAZY SUSAN” ABOVE THIS POST FOR FEATURED ITEMS (UPDATED FREQUENTLY)

OK now “Komaza” hair care line…Who has tried these products? I’ve also stuck some additional videos in the comments section…Any helpful feedback is appreciated!

Possibilities for CW (I may try these next go around…Sticking with one product line at a time so I can better gauge results):
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July 28th, 2010 by CW | 14 Comments »

Rumormill: Will “VOUGE” have a Africa Feature?

If anyone can provide further, please feel free to comment…I would be pleased as punch to see this come into fruition!

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July 26th, 2010 by CW | 7 Comments »

Miss Universe : A Message From “M”

“Get an account and VOTE. Support black beauty! It will take 30 minutes total to get an account and to vote! Don’t delay the pageant is next month.“

via Miss Universe : Members

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July 24th, 2010 by CW | 7 Comments »

Nostalgic Blurbs From Jet (Thanx AB!)

Article #1

Article #2

Aritcle #3

Article #4

Wow! How did we regress so much?

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July 23rd, 2010 by CW | No Comments »

Let’s Be Mature About This…

Meet Up & Coming Author Renee LaRuse



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July 17th, 2010 by CW | 1 Comment »

Traci 07/16/10 II

Let’s face it. ..when it comes to dating and meeting men, most women have their claws out and ready. I made the mistake of surrounding myself with these “women” awhile back. I would go over to their houses and chit chat, etc. and of course the talk would turn to men. Now this was a diverse group of women (I was one of the only two BW in the group), which I mistook for women being open to IR dating. Boy was that a mistake. Because the thing of it is, they were open to IR dating for THEMSELVES. They were the most boy crazy women I’ve ever met. They moved fast, really really fast if a guy was available…I couldn’t keep up with their relationships – which all failed in the end. But that’s not my point of this post. Here it is: You ever notice that with other races of women it’s okay for THEM to date the rainbow but when a black woman steps up to the plate it’s like the whole world stops and wants to question your actions, thought process, ask why, etc. What’s up with that?

I was getting serious hate from this Asian girl (the self proclaimed “Leader” of this group) because I shared with her my preference to date nonblack men. If I said an Asian guy was cute, all of a sudden it was, “He doesn’t date anyone but Asians.” Honey, calm down….all I said was that he was cute…why all of the “he doesn’t date this and that?” Who said anything about dating? I said he was cute. Also, she would make it a point to tell me that this black guy was “sweet on her” and that black guy “was sweet on her”…um, okay…and why are you telling me this? Didn’t I tell you my preference of non black men? It was like she had this sole agenda to keep me down and try to make me believe that “no one wants to date black women…right?.” (Yes, she actually said that to me – I, of course, corrected her in the nicest possible way I could because believe me if I wasn’t a Christian woman…anyway…) I believe she was/is threatened by me and even mentioned that my confidence would make some women in the group feel intimidated. So, I’m supposed to suppress my confidence? Give me a break! (Just a sidenote here: Don’t ever tell a women or man that they intimidate you. Seriously. Don’t show all your cards like that. That’s just plain stupidity.)



Needless to say I have limited all interaction with her and the rest of the ladies in her circle (even though they didn’t say negative things to me directly, I don’t need to be surrounded by them, plus I believe they shared similar views as her) and have given all of them limited exposure to my Facebook. I know I can block them from FB but the thing is I’m not mad at them, I just realize we are on different levels. I think differently than they do and that’s okay. People are people, women are women. I don’t need to be nasty about the situation, but in the same token I’m not going to be bothered with their nonsense, insecurity, boycrazy-ness, etc.  No, not me. Sorry.


This post is just a reminder to those BW out there who get people hating on them because they are trying to seek the best possible mate for themselves regardless of color – just keep on keeping on. You are doing something right! I would advise you to cut those folks out of your life (pronto!) and just do your own thing. I thought I needed alot of women friends, but I don’t. I just need good women friends that are like minded and have my back. That’s all I need. The few that I have I am thankful for…I don’t need more!

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July 16th, 2010 by CW | 15 Comments »

Traci 07/16/10

You know I guess the summertime brings out the fools (well not really but you know what I mean). I went to Bennigan’s on Michigan Ave with my friend Cheri yesterday. We are sitting by the bar and just having a good time. In comes this random BM from off the street. Of course he makes his way towards me and her. He sits down in the seat across from her and asks “How you ladies doing?” We politely said, “Hi” and continue our conversation. He interrupts to tell Cheri how beautiful she is (and she is) and then he says “Hmmmmm…I’m looking for a wife!”  Cheri dates white men only and she looked at him like he was crazy. He got the point and left.
Ah…summertime :-)
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July 16th, 2010 by CW | 8 Comments »

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